Your nicotine is lying to you, pure and simple. Its based on the belief that the temptation to smoke would be too great, with cigarettes and smoke around the house or garden, and this is then percieved as painful or 'a hassle'. The fact that you smoke is consequential of the fact that you have a motive to. Its this motive that needs to be addressed and quashed by learning what is really happening. By dissolving the illusions that you have developed for yourself around smoking (with a little help by the tobacco industry). How long will you both use each other as another reason so stay enslaved? Until one of you is visiting the other in hospital? And then what happens if they relapse, will 'love' cause you to do the same? Why let someone else decide whether or not you are free from nicotine? If you are worried about temptation when you quit smoking, then you have a lot of re-framing to do around the issues of why you smoke. When you quit for good, you wont be tempted, and nothing would drag you back to it.